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Dollar_Girl
2003-05-13, 12:45
afraid to cry? do u ever cry so much that your entire being just aches? do u feel like it isn't okay to cry? do u associate crying with weakness? when is the last time u cried?:beer:
badfish_76
2003-05-13, 14:59
I am not afraid to cry. I did it yesterday when the kitten was shut in the door. I thought that it's back was broken and I cried so hard I thought I was gonna puke! I don't think that my crying is relation to this had anything to do with weakness. It was empathy. I felt so bad for the pain that another living thing was feeling. that I couldn't stop the pain. So I really don't think that my crying in general has much to do with weakness. There is usually a good reason if I am crying. :bluefish:
eclectica
2003-05-13, 23:38
I find that I cry when I watch movies, but real life events rarely cause me to cry.

What causes me to cry is when I see other people crying. That happened to me at my brother's wedding.

A couple of weeks ago I was near the World Trade center and as usual I saw a couple of hundred people in the area. Most are tourists looking at "ground zero". Then I saw someone crying, and seeing that made me feel sad. I remember back to 9-11, and the saddest thing I saw was not the towers burning, but seeing someone walking down the street crying.
nicobie
2003-05-14, 01:01
I don like people watching me cry.
eclectica
2003-05-14, 04:35
About nine years ago, I came back at night from the bar and saw some dog barking from behind a fence. It was left there to guard the place. I went over to it and started talking nice to it, and then it was nice to me too. I found the whole thing sad because the poor dog had a role to play of being ferocious, but it was really nice deep down, despite the role it was expected to play. I started crying and dog was whimpering and licking my hand through the fence, while I was crying.
Dollar_Girl
2003-05-14, 10:31
Different things make me cry at different stages of my cycle.
MOvies make me cry... sometimes i feel for the characters playing a role, and their situation. I once cried when i was watching a telephone service add, that featured ppl drowning in flood waters or something.

I also cry when i see suffering wether it is physical or mental. i just imagine the situation and attempt to imagine what these people are feeling.

I also seem to cry when i am emotinally overwhelmed. I dont think i am too sensational at organising my feelings when they all come in one giant load at once. That is why i am not good at any confrontations. Sometimes i wish i could be like those people who have no issue confronting other ppl with strong verbal language... and other times i find those types of outburts completely idiotic. It becomes overwhelming when i have one or more people confronting me, yet i still do not do the same back, therefore i find that i easily get teary.


i have however, never cried tears of joy. Maybe one day eh? :eatout:
eclectica
2003-05-14, 19:07
My wife is the opposite of me because she rarely cries or makes much of any noise in exercise or in sex or in pain.

When people repress their crying, they may also be the same types to cover their mouths when laughing, or be ashamed to speak loudly in public places.

Being open about one's feelings subjects one to criticism, so I think people repress themselves for fear of criticism.

I cry for more reasons than just sadness. I cry sometimes when a song I hear really gets to me, or if I am happy such as when my daughter was born.

Any strong emotions will cause me to cry, except anger.

I noticed too that I cry more when I've been awake for a long time and I am fatigued.

When I get the first burst of caffeine in the morning, I get a euphoria that causes me to cry too. Though I don't get that so much lately because I am a caffeine junkie, and I'm just getting my daily fix.
mekajinn
2003-05-14, 23:32
Originally posted by Dollar_Girl
i have however, never cried tears of joy. Maybe one day eh? :eatout:


yep yep :eatout:


>=]
Dollar_Girl
2003-05-15, 00:46
hey harb :cool:


me? i've never had an abortion, but i firmly believe in a womans right to do so. I perhaps spoke of a 'foetus' because scientifically it is a foetus. I think you are wrong if you believe science 'dehumanises' ... it is like those people who desperately need to be politically correct.. you know "i'm the general professional assistant manager of coffee and email at IBM" - no sweetheart you are a SECRETARY.

I think there is a 'fine' line between scientific language and 'moral language'. U call it a cookie, i call it a biscuit... doens't mean u like your sweets any more than i do.

I also dont' believe in this attempt to be careful of using more 'scientific' language just so i dont offend anyone... really, it is like me speaking as tho there is no god... i'm not detachign myself from life or my spiritual being and soul... i just odnt believe in a jesus christ - does that mean i'm 'dehumanising' myself? or that i am 'lost' in this world?

science ties in with life, life is SCIENCE, science IS life.

i'm Katarina... Kat... i've been Katy before too, my name is also DICKHEAD, i have been arsehead, i have been "excuse me miss" ... and thats all fine ay... i'm not worried :eatout:
Dollar_Girl
2003-05-15, 00:47
Originally posted by mek
yep yep :eatout:


>=]


yeah when u finally go back to living in your cave :mad: :eatout:

i hope they dont have technologically equiped caves these days with high speed internet or something :flush:
Dollar_Girl
2003-05-15, 00:54
*songs also make me cry.. i was listening to collective soul - Run, the other day... and maybe it was just the emotional state i was in, but i just cried like i havn't cried in months. I believe crying to be a good release, as once you have finished crying, one generally feels more relaxed, as it uses up quite a lot of energy.

i too think about the place of men and women in society... men are too 'embarassed' to cry because as it was said, the fear of being subjected to peoples criticism about such a thing is terrifying... and then i think back to a SEX AND THE CITY episode where 'samantha' wanted to work in some male dominated office, and she was desperately trying NOT to cry so that she doens't get forevermore branded as "emotional woman" or "that broad with PMS" or be viewed as incapable.

i think women are equally as ruthless as men... so when people talk about an ideal view of the world with women running it, i believe they havn't really thought it through. Even in the regime of saddam hussein, u had a mix of men and women. some of those women were babes too :eatout:
Dollar_Girl
2003-05-15, 04:25
I dont think u should rely soley on another to tell u the meaning of nationalism and what it represents, for it exists in many forms, degrees and complexities.

Many times i find i have people telling me the simplified meanings of complex things... and i just think 'there has to be more' so i go and read alot of stuff on it and conclude my own definition. Sometimes i will read about something for many months and still not yet have formed a rounded opinion on it, and that is okay too, for that is how life is.

I think people get offended and hurt because they live in an apparent black and white world where they believe they know the black and white langauage of life along with its black and white meanings and definitions of right and wrong. Many times i question what i believe to be moral and imoral, and everytime i have end up having a complex debate in my mind for such a long time that i just end up being too mentally lazy to finish it. Therefore sometimes i feel as though my definitions of right and wrong are not correctly justified, but merely shaped by my culture and surroundings. What am i then, if not just a follower?
I think in may instances we realise life is in no way black and white, but that doesn't stop us from viewing certain issues as simplified, because of what we perceive to be correct and incorrect. I dont believe this to be a fault in anyway, for i believe it is just part of mans understanding and complex abilities to just... be.

i appreciate your posts, because you put good thought into them, which i believe is a very fine quality.:eatout:
tim
2004-09-20, 01:59
I feel like crying [b]right now
Criminal_Sniper
2004-09-20, 17:38
we are the imaginations of ourselves
cry, cry, cry
i admit its good to see a little pain for those who deserve it through ignorance not just in one or two thing but in every aspect of life

things are not as they seem
we can never get along with ourselves (meaning eachother)
Dollar_Girl
2004-09-21, 00:11
each other here on the forum? or people in general?

its not compulsory for everyone to get along. i believe morality plays one of the most major roles in a more peaceful world. you don't have to like anyone, but i believe if you respect their most basic rights as a human being, then that individual can work up from there. its difficult to establish what exactly a universal moral standard should be, maybe even impossible because of cultural differences and government differences. in some places a black man is just a nigger and in other places a woman is nothing more than a bitch. how can there be equality anywhere, unless governments and cultures appreciate all sexes and all nationalities.
tim
2004-09-21, 01:02
each other here on the forum? or people in general?

its not compulsory for everyone to get along. i believe morality plays one of the most major roles in a more peaceful world. you don't have to like anyone, but i believe if you respect their most basic rights as a human being, then that individual can work up from there. its difficult to establish what exactly a universal moral standard should be, maybe even impossible because of cultural differences and government differences. in some places a black man is just a nigger and in other places a woman is nothing more than a bitch. how can there be equality anywhere, unless governments and cultures appreciate all sexes and all nationalities.


have you respected my rights as a human being?
you really should google (http://www.3-3-3.org/forum/search.php?do=finduser&u=11) some of your old posts by yourself and just read some of the things you've said to me.
I did that the other day and it left me feeling sick inside and really, really hurt.
slx
2004-09-21, 01:14
me feeling sick inside and really hurt.

good....
Dollar_Girl
2004-09-21, 01:25
have you respected my rights as a human being?
you really should google (http://www.3-3-3.org/forum/search.php?do=finduser&u=11) some of your old posts by yourself and just read some of the things you've said to me.
I did that the other day and it left me feeling sick inside and really, really hurt.


i said human beings dude, not shit stains.
tim
2004-09-21, 01:29
i said human beings dude, not shit stains.

I am a 'shit stain' my dear
tim
2004-09-21, 01:36
slx I will just email her my comments.
tim
2004-09-21, 01:39
slx I will just email her my comments.

done.
tim
2004-09-21, 01:40
Originally Posted by Dollar_Girl
i said human beings dude, not shit stains.



I am not a 'shit stain' if I am a shit stain then you my dear are a worthless cunt.

Just the mere fact you would stoop so low as to call me something like this totally nulls and voids the prolific thoughts you had above.
tim
2004-09-21, 13:54
anything 'bad' you say negates the positive that you have to say. What is this 'philosophy' of life that you subscribe to? Is it humanism?
how do perceive christians who don't practice the things they say others should?
same thing here, really.
Criminal_Sniper
2004-09-21, 17:39
christians havent got it right
they attach to a greater being and constantly doubt through their lives
they are not at peace they just have an excuse to go around acting superior
and they have a scapegoat

not many can perfectly attain it straight away some never do
if we could we would all be floating around the world helping those who couldnt
but then there wouldnt be any of those would there?

and $girl
we are all one big conciousness to put it in known terms
we just have split personality syndrome
:P
this physical world is a creation or desire
same with time and space
think of the decay
it is all a temporary position
we can break off these little pieces and return them to the whole
can't expect u to understand that though i give it in hope u do :p
where the fuck is everyone?
eclectica
2004-09-21, 21:44
anything 'bad' you say negates the positive that you have to say.

It's positive when Dollar_Girl calls you a shit stain.
nicobie
2004-09-22, 00:47
It's positive when Dollar_Girl calls you a shit stain.

Hey assHole, why is that?

So the creap can fuck with her a bit more? and u're joint gets more posts?

U are the crumb who wants the attention here. U could care less about $'s metal health.

Without her This shithole will get less posts.
tim
2004-09-22, 01:04
Hey assHole, why is that?

So the creap can fuck with her a bit more? and u're joint gets more posts?

U are the crumb who wants the attention here. U could care less about $'s metal health.

Without her This shithole will get less posts.

I agree with you there, Nic. She is the problem here.
Criminal_Sniper
2004-09-22, 02:16
u have all lost it
u lot for real?
im leavin
slx
2004-09-22, 02:21
is easy to hide head in sand SeaMonkey....harder but noble to hold head up & look into flying winds
tim
2004-09-22, 12:17
my heart aches for you.
nicobie
2004-09-23, 01:42
u have all lost it
u lot for real?
im leavin


:)

Would it be possible to kill tttimmy on the way out?


Hahahahahahahaaa
nanook
2004-09-23, 12:28
Awwwww, come on all. Let's group-hug or something. lmao!
Could you picture it though? That would be fucking hilarious. But theraputic, I suppose.
nicobie
2004-09-24, 01:50
What was the name of that nazi boad who took such good pics of hitler.

"lurkie, I'm sure would want her to take his pics. They could use the same music too.....

dance of the val..........vampires
nanook
2004-09-24, 12:31
Nicobie, I just noticed your title, "Embaressed About Posting". That's funny, cause you have over 500 posts. It's all good. Just as long as you're posting, I guess. lol.
nicobie
2004-09-25, 01:15
Nicobie, I just noticed your title, "Embaressed About Posting". That's funny, cause you have over 500 posts. It's all good. Just as long as you're posting, I guess. lol.


I've mostly been fuk'in with 'elurike. at the begining I kinda was defending gaz because of lurks terible manners. (afterall he stole Nappie, the prick).

Now I'm around just because I like to point out what a prick he really is. I honestly don't think I've ever seen such a wacked out ego. I feel it is important to point this out so others can keep their young kids away from him.


Other than that...It's just the internet anyway.

sheshes.